Additionally, you may speak different love languages, creating communication barriers and making sex and your love life seem like an almost insurmountable mountain.
They become more and more frequent.
You both feel like you are the one with whom there’s something wrong.
You both feel misunderstood by your partner.
And even when you’re communicating, you feel like you’re just not being heard.
At this stage, sex starts to feel like a Civil War. Having sex once a month and then, every few months becomes a reality. And even when you do have it, it lacks passion, feels boring and almost, like a chore.
Sex becomes something to be dreaded instead of something to be desired.